Married for 12 years, waiting on God for the fruit of the womb. 6 years ago, hubby impregnated a lady and married her without my knowledge. Somehow, I found out and he owned up. As I write this, she has four now,a boy and 3 girls. She thought I didn’t know about her, she brought them to our home to cause scandal, telling everybody that cares to listen that my hubby abandoned them just to spite me.

I’ve had 3 failed IVFs sponsored by hubby,he hasn’t given up on me yet, as he is against adoption. I still love him, in as much as I ‘ll like to keep my home, my strength fails me at times because I’m only human. What do i do now?